you see what i did there? i put the word “boobs” in the title, and as we speak, the hits for this entry are going through the roof 🙂
today we had some free time in the morning, so we left the center in priyanka’s car (yay a/c!) and went shopping for some underthings that we would need for our onam (the big upcoming holiday) outfits. turns out that, under a sari top, you have to wear a pointy bra–the pointier the better. besides my wedding underwear, i haven’t bought and worn a bra in maybe 6 years, so this was a blast from the past for sure. we went to a little shop, got measured by the shop girl, and started trying things on. the first bra i tried was so pointy that it had little empty pockets at the end (stuff it??), so i went with the second (extremely matronly) slightly less pointy one. man oh man. talk about feeling like a grandma!
after procuring our underthings, we drove down to m.g. road (mahatma gandhi road, india’s corollary to mlk boulevard in the u.s.–one in every city) to buy what we needed for our holiday outfits.
priyanka decided to take us to a store called jayalakshmi, because we would be able to get most, if not all, of what we needed in one place if we started there. donna and i were looking for material to make our traditional kerala outfits out of for the upcoming holiday–we needed material for our sari blouses (cholis in hindi), either a sari (which i got) or a set mundu (which donna got), and underskirts.
jayalakshmi was a trip! it was 4 floors of the busiest, most bustling, brightest, flashiest material you’ve ever seen. there were ready-made clothes, heaps of beautiful fabrics to be cut and tailored, stoles and scarves, tons of identically dressed shop girls, and about a thousand people over the fire code limit for shoppers.
the bottom three floors had regular clothing, but the top floor was the bridal section. i have never seen such in my life! indian bridal wear is beautiful–rich colors, bejeweled and gold-embellished fabrics–about as different from american bridal wear as you can get. priyanka wanted to give us a taste of the bridal experience, so we sat on the upstairs sofas (“no, no. we’re just waiting to meet someone. why yes, we’d love coffee!”) and watched from the corners of our eyes as a young bride tried on yard after yard of blindingly jeweled purple and gold fabrics. the family, the groom, and the groom’s family were seated in a row of chairs admiring the young woman on the pedestal, her face all lit up with smiles.
but on to our task. the traditional onam-wear is either a sari or a set mundu in white with a gold (yes real gold thread) border. the sari is one long piece wrapped and pleated in the front (you’ve seen this before) and the set mundu is a wrapped skirt and over-the-shoulder piece that’s separate. you can choose either plain gold and white with a gold blouse (choli), or you can get gold with colored accents and then a colored blouse to match. i got the gold and white with material for a gold top, and donna got the gold and white with a gold and purple brocade for the top. donna found an underskirt, but my size stumped the shop girl, who handed me a (waaaaay too small) underskirt and took me to the dressing rooms “just to try”—needless to say, it made it to about my knees and would go no higher.
so we left jayalakshmi with my sari and material for a gold top, as well as donna’s set mundu, under skirt, and brocade material.
on to the tailor!
at the tailor’s place, we were measured in a billion different places (while wearing the ever-important pointy bras!) so that the material we bought could be made into custom blouses for our outfits. in india (much unlike the states) it is waaaaay cheaper to have your clothes made than to buy them ready made. for instance, the brocade that donna bought for around $1.50 a yard here would easily have been $25 a yard in the states.
so our blouses and my underskirt are being made at the tailors, and the rest is ready to go. i’ve got about 2 weeks to learn how to wrap a sari (eeek!) and then (baring births) we’ll have a well-dressed day of holiday celebrations on the 13th. there will be many pictures, i promise 🙂
if you’re lucky, there will even be pointy bra pics.
to be continued…